My favorite quote

"I just wanted to tell you that your kids are the ONLY reason I will have kids when I'm older..."
Helen. 7/24/09

Words to live by

If it is to be, it is up to me.

Pumpkin mine!

After I published yesterday's post I thought I should stop complaining
about not having time to do things with the kids and just do something fun!
So I hollered for Jack, Devlyn & Wyatt, grabbed up their pumpkins and we got to work!


Jack took this snapshot of me.
(On a side note, I'm still shocked every time I see a picture of me.
Who IS that thin person?!)


I asked Devlyn & Jack to make their faces look like their pumpkins.
They would both smile, then Jack would frown and Devlyn would smile,
then someone would be distracted, then...Well, this was the best shot of the bunch!


Here is Wy smiling like his adorable little pumpkin!


If you think it is difficult to get 2 kids to smile and be in a picture at one time, try 3.
I started feeling quite bad for all the photographers at the JC Pennys and such!

Olde MacDonald's

I have heard that it takes six weeks to change or establish a habit. Friends, let me tell you that the boys and I are halfway to a habit. Every Monday for the last 3 weeks, I have taken the boys to McDonald's for lunch. They know it is my day off because Devon takes Devlyn to spend the night at her apartment Sunday night, which leaves just me and the boys for my day off. The boys start in on me early in the morning "If we are good, can we go to Olde MacDonald's?" (I don't let them eat much junk the rest of the week, so I say yes.) Well, we put a little twist on the chicken & fries business this week by turning lunch into a picnic in their bedroom. At first, Jack was nearly devastated that we wouldn't be going inside "Old MacDonald's". (Have I told you that is what Jack calls McDonald's?) He loves to go inside Olde MacDonald's. This week I just couldn't stomach going inside - I knew I would break down and get myself something I shouldn't eat. I pulled into the drive thru and Jack started to get upset. I quickly said "We can have a picnic!" Jack asked what that was and I said it was a special lunch. Well, he calmed down but I could tell he was reserving judgement until he knew a picnic was special. When I unfurled a quilt on his bedroom floor Jack was so excited he was jumping all over the place. (On a side note, our picnic blanket was made for me by my mama when I was a little girl. She made that blanket out of clothes she had made for me which I had outgrown. And yes, there are swatches on that quilt from outfits that I still remember... Anyway, the boys and I set up shop and had a wonderful time picnic-ing in their bedroom.

Jack has learned to hop on one foot - something he was not able to do at his 4 year check up. Not to be left out or out-done, Wy sort of bounces as he stands on one foot. He does hold my hand to do this - but he is doing all the work. This pleases him to no end.

John had to replace the breaks on his truck the other week. Thank heavens my John is a gear head. I don't know how we would have paid for a break job if he couldn't do it himself. Once Jack heard that daddy was headed downstairs to work on his truck, Jack insisted that he could help too. He grabbed up his toolbox and said "My tools will really help." Off they went, into the garage, for hours...Then it was poor Jack's bedtime, the job wasn't done and he was distraught. He couldn't fathom leaving daddy and the job not done.

Devlyn has taken to carrying a purse everywhere she goes. It is near to bursting and weighs a ton. I finally sneaked a peak inside one day this week - her purse if full of trains.

John and Devon took the kids out last weekend to pick out some pumpkins. The kids had so much fun. John says the boys wouldn't stay still long enough to get their picture taken. Unfortunately we haven't had time to carve our pumpkins. How do people fit in everything they have to do? When do they have time for the fun stuff like carving pumpkins with their kids? I can barely find the time to take them out for a walk, let alone sit down to carve out every one's pumpkin...

Whenever we do go for a walk, I let the kids race to the next driveway. (I think we have talked about this before.) They know they have to stop at the driveway. If they fail to stop, they have to hold my hand while the other kids get to race. Well, Devlyn is fast. That child wins every race. She has even beat Connie a time or two. I have to negotiate deals with her to let Jack and Wy win once each walk.

Abby & Connie have enrolled in a Coterie class called Where the Wild Things Are. They go on Saturday afternoons and are having a wonderful time. They have class on Halloween and are so excited about such a fun class on Halloween.

Every one's grades came out this week. Abby is doing great with all As, Bs and 1 C. Abby's teacher commented that Abby's reading and math skills went up over the summer and that does not happen - ever. She told Ma that it is a direct result of our working with her over the summer - yeah us! Abs is still a titch below average in her math skills, but she is inching forward steadily. Slow and steady wins the race, right? She has a few things to work on - like following directions, but that wasn't a surprise to us. Connie's grades are good too. She also has some things to work on, none of which were a surprise to us. OK - I was a little irritated that one of the teacher comments was that Connie can't form her numbers all the way up to 100. I haven't seen any homework or teacher note that indicated writing numbers through 100 was something the kids were working on. So, we will just add that to the mix.

Jess seems to be doing well. From the picture she is painting to me, she is making new friends (and getting away from the crowd of kids she really shouldn't hang out with.) She is putting in a lot of community service hours. She is working on studying and developing study skills. She is making friends with the kids in the family she lives with (this is a major turning point in my opinion.) She is bonding with the adults in the house. She has started calling me with homework questions. She is talking about next year in Omaha instead of here in KC. Her texts to me have a chipper tone instead of doom and gloom. I try to let her know a couple of times each week how proud I am of her and how much I believe in her. If anyone wants to pass a message on to her, I would be happy to send it her way.

Devon started a job at Target this week! It is seasonal with the possibility of being long term if there is a slot open after the Holidays. Please take a moment to send out some good thoughts and prayers for her.

I didn't get many pictures this week - so here are the boys just being boys...

OK - I'm going to go carve at least one pumpkin with the kids who are here. I love you all. Peace and blessings - and look forward to some Halloween costume type pictures next time!!!
Amy & the gang at Owenland Park!

Happy Birthday, Abby!

Abby turned 9 on Saturday. I had rehearsal all day and didn't make it home until after dinner. Fortunaltely for me, the fam saved cake and presents until I got home. Yummy cake for me! Abby and I were going to make her cake, but Grandma picked up a yummy strawberry ice cream cake for the birthday girl. Abby lovedher cake.

My friend Shannon called that evening and talked to Abs. Shan informed me that Abby "feels -much- older" now that she is 9. She feels more grown up.

We have an Abels family tradition of letting the birthday person pick out what they want for dinner. Abby decided she wanted pizza. Mom remembers making personal pizzas on english muffins when she was younger, so she picked up pizza making goodies and let the kids make up thier own individual pizza works of art.

Abby got some very grown up gifts for such a grown up young lady. Gammy picked out a ring and watch set that Ab loves. Her mama gave her some perfume, which is lovely. And her uncle John picked out some fun iron on decals which will make a nice grown up project and personalize a t-shirt or two.

We will see you again soon,
love,
Amy & the gang at Owenland Park

Are you kidding me?

I started rehearsals for Little House on the Prairie this week (Jack is again desperate to go to work with me) and so have not been home in the evenings. I asked the other grown ups to feed me a few snippets from the week and so we have the following;

This from my mother:
The boys love their Otto books. They have Otto Goes to Camp and Otto Has a Birthday. Jack has both books memorized.
Not long ago, he was having a bit of a meltdown, so I (Gammy) picked up his Otto Goes to Camp and started reading it. But, instead of reading, "Otto was worried about going to camp," I read, "Otto was excited about going to school." Jack stopped crying to tell me, "No, Gammie, it's, "Otto was worried about going to camp." Then he proceeded to continue his meltdown, but with a little less fervor. I continued reading the book, but changing one word every few sentences, I said "Otto took a sleeping bag" instead of "blanket" and was corrected by Jack. I said "Otto packed an apple pie" instead of "a cherry pie" and was corrected again. Soon, Jack was rolling with laughter, correcting me every time I read a word wrong. He has started asking for me to read to him and Wyatt at bedtime now, and he always wants Otto. We have a very good time with Jack correcting me every other sentence.

Last week, Jack proceeded to "read" the book to his mama (Gammie's way, of course.) I must say, he was quite inventive in the things he brought into the book, insisting that mommy correct him as he went along. John had me creep up the stairs to listen, and Jack was having a great time "reading" his Otto book to Mama.

From my sister Devon;
My story for you is that Jack helped me clean the porch of the many leaves by using the snow shovel to pick them up and then dumping them into their wagon. When the wagon was full he would tell me it was time for me to dump it into the pile in the yard so he could keep working. While working he started telling me a story about Thomas and Hero train and their race with Spencer, of course to pass the time. Accidentally he hit Wyatt with the shovel and the little man got very upset. Well the only thing I could do to get him to calm down was to take him to a separate part of the porch. There I picked up handfuls of leaves and as I was pouring them over Wyatt's head I sang "Leaves raining on Wyatt!" Over and over I sang and poured leaves on him as he soon started to laugh and couldn't stop. He then joined in my game and started pouring leaves on my head!

And a bit from John;
Last weekend, Wyatt and I were in our living room, watching a Thomas movie. I got up to get something. When I came back to sit down, Wy was was sitting in his rocking chair telling me that he's made a spot for me to sit with him! "I made a spot for you, Daddy!" He was very proud of himself.

A few weeks ago, I was going into the bathroom, and asked Wy to go in with me. I blew my nose and it made a full, loud and honking noise. Wyatt looked up at me and said, 'Daddy, you farted your nose!'

A few weeks go, I finally remembered to have the boys try on their Thomas Costumes to make sure they fit and what not. I soon realized I should not have done this just before bedtime; they both were laughing and desperate to wear them as pajamas... Oy. (Now you all know that Jack has worn the same costume for the last few years. It doesn't look bad. But poor Wy - he has grown so much this past year. We are going to let this mini costume ride this year and try to pick up a larger Thomas on clearance.

I thought I would include a little e-mail John sent to me: "Jack loves to wear my glasses, he doesn't care which ones, my old pair of Safety Glasses; a pair of Garmin sunglasses Poppy passed on to me, the sunglasses that were in the truck when I bought it, or my current sunglasses. So one morning, I'm driving the littler ones out to Aunt Beth's house, (Hi Beth!), and Jack has been wearing my safety glasses for nearly half an hour, (he also puts on my work gloves, and holds his hands straight up in front of himself- and rotates his hands when he is talking and holds them still, [but upright], when he isn't talking), and he asks for one of the other glasses, and then another, then another, and another still. He was putting them all on, one on top of the other.

A little tidbit from me;
Mom and I took Wy shopping the other week. As we were loading groceries into the trunk Mom responded to a comment I had made. "Are you kidding me?" she said. Wy piped up "No, I not kidding you, Gammy."

Wy loves to read. I was sitting on the stairs flipping through a cook book, Wy snuggled up next to me and picked up my 2nd cook book. Each page he turned to, he would sit up very straight and say "Huh." Then he might comment that "strawberries is yummy." then flip to another recipe. "Huh. I wike vis one, too." It was very funny. He got upset after a while and demanded that I read my book to him, so there we sat on the steps reading about how to turn the turkey carcass into a lovely stock. Maybe I have a budding chef on my hands?

Finally, here are Wy and I dancing together one night after I got home from rehearsals. I stood him up on the counter, he wrapped his arm around my neck and started to sway. It was happiness in my heart.

Now, friends, it is my day off again, and I have promised to take the boys to what Jack refers to as "Old MacDonald's" for some olde chicken and fries.

love and blessings,
Owenland Park

A visit

John's sister Jeanette came in for a visit last weekend. The boys (and Connie) made fast friends with her. Monday morning Jack was busy telling Jeannette all about the musical Into the Woods. (That is the show John just did at the Rep.) Jack spent a great deal of time detailing through the show and finally asked if we could just watch the movie. (I had borrowed the DVD from one of my colleagues.) We went downstairs to put in the movie and Jack turned to John and said "Daddy, can you leave us alone?" He wanted to sit downstairs with Jeanette.

We also had the good fortune and timing for a day visit from John's sister Sue and brother-in-law Steve while Jeanette was here. They brought remote control cars and dogs for all the kids. It was a remote control party here a the house. The kids could barely contain themselves with all these new toys. I finally had to banish all noise making toys to the upstairs so the adults could visit - and I'm usually not bothered by noisy toys. I think they did bring the boys some of the best presents they have ever gotten; 2 paint brushes. The boys tote these things around all over the place. Jack often sleeps with a paintbrush under his pillow.

Wy is obsessed with "Ring around the rosie." He runs around singing it all day long. Jack on the other hand is obsessed with Into The Woods. He is constantly singing or humming one of the songs. He asks to listen to the CD. He has been asking me about the DVD - I think we are going to have to buy the movie on line because I have already returned it to my friend.

I don't know about anyone else, but Jeanette and I had a lovely time. (I think we were the winners of the whole trip.) Poor John had to strike Into the Woods, so Jeanette and I left all the little kiddies with my folks and we went out for Thai. That was yummy. Then we scooted down to the Crown Center to get a sneak peek at the zombie show Maul of the Dead. We made super easy triple layer chocolate pie and chocolate chip 'ice cream' cookie sandwiches!



More updates soon,
love from Owenland Park